I felt that my first blog ought to speak to the relationship between sex, and those of us interested in it from a professional, hobbyist or general kinkiness perspective; the "therapists" or "practitioners" as I will call us from now on.

Hopefully this article resonates on some level with the many in these groups, but in many ways the intent of this article is to serve as a mirror for myself.  Reflecting back to me, my own deeper philosophy and values. 

There are many barriers that limit ...